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Unusual rituals around the world for your wedding ceremony

At the Château, we have the privilege of welcoming brides and grooms from all walks of life. Every couple is unique, and every wedding deserves a touch of personal magic. Why not spice up your ceremony with unusual rituals from around the world, symbolic, original, and full of emotion? Here is a selection of unusual rituals from around the world to incorporate into your wedding to make it truly unforgettable.

The Stone Ritual – Western Europe

This ritual involves forming a circle of stones around the bride and groom during the ceremony. Each stone represents a symbol: strength, family, wisdom, love, protection, etc. This circle becomes a sacred space, a symbolic cocoon, and the union takes place.

The Water Ritual – Japan

In Japan, there is a ritual called San-san-kudo, which involves drinking sake in three gulps, three times. Why not adapt this ritual with a symbolic drink for both of you? This could become an intimate and solemn moment during the secular ceremony.

Planting a Tree – South Africa / Germany

A symbol of growth, rootedness, and shared life, planting a tree during the ceremony is a powerful gesture. It is a ritual practiced in several cultures, particularly in South Africa and Germany.

The Fire Ceremony – India

In Hindu weddings, the bride and groom circle a sacred fire to symbolize purity and transformation. You can draw inspiration from this by lighting a candle together, or by each writing a word on a piece of paper to symbolically burn during the ceremony.

The Salt Ritual – Japan & Eastern Europe

In many cultures, salt symbolizes purity, protection, and longevity. In Poland and Japan, salt is used in blessings or to seal a union.

The Ritual of Painting – United States

Very popular in American secular ceremonies, this ritual involves each person pouring a color onto a white canvas. The colors blend together to create a unique work: your first creation together.

The Ritual of Light – Philippines

In the Philippines, a unity candle is lit together to symbolize the fusion of two souls. It’s simple, visual, and very moving.

The Cord of Union – Mexico

At Mexican weddings, a lazo (cord) is placed around the bride and groom in the shape of a figure eight to symbolize infinity. This gesture can be performed by a loved one during the ceremony.

And why not… Create your own ritual?

You are free to create a symbolic gesture that reflects your personality: sealing a time capsule, writing letters to be opened in 10 years, weaving ties with ribbons, etc.